20 THINGS TO AVOID TO BECOME A REAL LADY.

Here are 20 things to avoid to become a real lady.

some people consider the rules of etiquette to be outdated and old fashioned however good manners never go out of style if you want to be taken seriously you should know there are things that can ruin your image of a true lady we Reayblogs have come up with a list of typical etiquette mistakes a lady would never make keep them in mind and you'll always make a great first impression

20. Wearing poor quality fake designer items you don't have to spend all your money on some ridiculously expensive designer bag but if you can't afford it buying a much cheaper copy is not an option a replica even of good quality can be easily spotted so if you plan to ruin a good first impression go for the fake if not choose stylish and high quality clothing items that you can afford they don't have to have some famous designers name on them the same applies to accessories and jewelry another advantage of this approach is that clothes of good quality lasts long so buying them you save money and time you would otherwise have to waste on shopping in the future

19. Making fashion mistakes a true lady would never wear an oversized sweater or a pair of overly tight shorts she knows how to choose the right types of clothes that say a lot about her style she would never wear baggy clothes just because they're comfortable her clothing is very tasteful feminine and every item in her wardrobe is chosen according to her body type as for accessories they should be modest and not cheap if you are choosing earrings go for diamond or pearl studs evening dress will look perfect complemented with dangling earrings it is a good idea to use brooches pinned to your jacket sweater or blouse they give any piece of clothing an individual look

18. Slouching another important rule for a lady is holding a royal posture improving your posture is not as difficult as it may seem at first including regular exercises in your schedule will strengthen the muscles in your upper back and shoulders and improve your posture especially effective is yoga what is more it is a very ladylike kind of exercise.

17. Not taking good care of yourself a true lady takes good care of herself she loves sports maintains a healthy diet pays attention to skincare and consult specialists if necessary this means she is fit and has glowing skin and healthy hair and nails it doesn't mean that to look perfect you need to spend long hours in beauty salons or Fitness plugs you just need to look neat presentable and well groomed at any moment of your life be it at home or work

16. Wearing too much makeup if a woman pays special attention to skin care her skin looks amazing she knows exactly what makes her face stand out and uses makeup accordingly she is always in the spotlight and she looks gorgeous even without tons of decorations on her face an ideal choice for makeup is a light foundation some blush mascara and lip gloss.

15. Being too fussy but the lady knows how to take control of her nervous habit if she has any she'd never play with her hair shake her leg or let any other fidgety behavior ruin her reputation what is more small things are not worth bussing over as they say if you can't change anything there is no sense in worrying you can change something there is no need to worry don't hurry you can lose your face a true lady manages to find time for everything so take your time. 

14. Finishing your soup to get the last spoonful of soup you need to slightly tilt your bowl or soup plate although table manners say you should tilt the plate away from you to avoid splashing it's better not to finish the soup at all even if your soup is mind-blowingly delicious enjoy it until you can use your spoon without tilting the plate another tip is to use not the familiar for most people's tapered end of the spoon but its sides this way there's a much smaller chance of accidentally spilling it

13. Being rude and spreading rumors being rude gossiping and whining are tattoos for a true lady it's beneath her neither would she listen to someone else's whining and gossiping why spend her precious time on that

12. Talking and laughing loudly it's very important to watch the tone of your voice laughing loudly yelling an offensive language are unacceptable don't matter if it's your grandmother your three-year-old or a president take the same tone of voice with everyone there is an opinion that a loud voice equals confidence in yourself but in fact it is nothing but in politeness

11. Arguing a true lady always has her own opinion and she's 100% sure of it however she never forced her ideas on anybody nor would she argue her choice doing so often indicates a person unsure of themselves it is crucially important for them to prove to the world that they are correct a lady doesn't need it at home when all is said and done why bother to prove her position. 

10. Eating on the go etiquette rules say you need to use cutlery when you're at the table so even if pizza is your favourite food don't order it in a restaurant if you're in a hurry try not to eat on the go it doesn't suit a true lady the best idea is to rearrange your tight schedule to find a couple of minutes for at least a decent cup of coffee

9. Being too honest opening up to a stranger has nothing to do with the image of a lady a true lady is never too much when it comes to communicating with new people she doesn't share details of her personal life her job or her innermost thoughts

8. Wearing white high heels a pair of white pumps can be worn either with a white wedding gown or with a white summer dress if such a pair is decorated with a colorful detail such as a bow or something of the kind it is easier to integrate the shoes into your outfit in other cases choose 2-tone or beige high heels depending on the color of your ensemble other colors can work too but you can never go wrong with a pair of black pumps

7.being late a lady knows that it's unacceptable to be more than 15 minutes late both for business and personal meeting and if the event is a wedding graduationor funeral it is absolutely unacceptable to be late a lady herself wouldn't wait for longer she'd leave because she values her time

6. Leaving an umbrella open to dry it's a very common mistake don't leave your umbrella open to dry close your umbrella before entering a building shake the water off and hang it to dry you can also use a special drying machine if it's available also be very attentive not to put a wet umbrella on aseat you wouldn't want to be the one to sit in a puddle of water right. 

5. Responding to another person sneeze By saying bless you many people respond to someone else's needs by saying bless you but this is only acceptable if the sneezer is a close friend or family member in all of the cases just ignore it as if you didn't notice anything unusual.

4. Not wearing pantyhose according to modern business etiquette rules a woman must wear pantyhose to work in formal receptions even on the hottest summer day if it's too hot you can wear thigh-highs or pants instead of a dress or a skirt.

3. Refusing food or drinks offered by a host a true lady would never refuse food and drinks offered to her if a host asked what drinks she prefers a lady would thank the host and go with a glass of white without lengthy explanations as to why she can't have a drink it's okay not to eat it all and just to take a sip of wine. 

2. Dancing with your hair down remember to keep your hair up and never wear high wheels so as not to injure other dancers a true lady cares about other people's health and safety what is more there is one golden rule better not to dance at all than to dance badly

1. Going on your food to cool it down it's unacceptable to blow on your food which is why a true lady waits for it to cool down naturally the best way to do it is to take a spoonful of your dish and hold it while you support the conversation this way the food will cool off quickly and effectively another way to make your food fool down is to try to stir it with a spoon however some etiquette gurus considert his method improper.

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